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HAPPY/SAD CHRISTMAS...
First of all, I want to wish a very Happy Christmas to all my readers… enjoy every minute. Christmas is a magical time, so make sure you spread some happiness… and take time out to be with family and friends.
My Christmas is not shaping up too well this year. A few days ago, my lovely dad died unexpectedly. He had a stroke, a little like Jude’s gran in Sundae Girl, and just didn’t get through it. I’m hurting so much right now, and missing him terribly.
Readers often ask who inspired me to write, or who was my hero, and the answer to those questions has always been my dad. He shared my love of art and writing and gave me enthusiasm, determination and love of life. He showed me how to dream big and how to do my very best to make the dreams happen, and he always, always believed in me, even when others did not.
Things are still very raw for me and it might be a while before I am able to reply to my emails, so please be patient. I know you will understand, because you’re the best, most loyal readers ever. There’s one thing I would love you to do for me this Christmas… if you are lucky enough to have a family, go and hug them right now and tell them you love them. After all, that’s what Christmas is all about.
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emily says...
hi cathy i did exacally what you asked me to do i went and hugged all my family i feel for you emily
Jane says...
OMG !!!! Cathy I’m soooo sorry!!!!! I LUV YOU ! stay strong, xoxoxoxox Jane
Jenn says...
AAAAWWWWW …..... I’m sorry Cathy!! That must be so hard on you!! I hope your Christmas is very happy anyway!! =)
Bonnie Wang says...
I’m sure its a good time to watch the wizard of oz to!
Maddie says...
I’m sooooo sorry! You made my eyes water when I read it! Everybody has got to die someday and I’m so sad that it’s Christmas for your dad! Have a wonderful Christmas anyway and just keep busy so you don’t think about it!
Amy says...
Oh my god cathy i’m soooo sorri he will always love you and you will always have him in your heart Amy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Beth says...
Aww I am so sorry about you’r dad. :( I don’t know what you’r going through but my friend does, her dad died today (21st) He died in a car crash. I hope you’r christmas will shapen up and become a good christmas. Merry Christmas! xx [I would hug my family but my mum and dad are out to see my aunti and wont be back till tommorow my eldest brother is at dinner and my other brother is so grumpy for a hug :D) xxx
Sarah says...
I am so sorry about your dad! You just enjoy your christmas as much as you can! I have just gone and huged my parents and i feel so much better! Merry x-mas
Rhian says...
I’m sorry Cathy for the enexpected death of your father. There is never a right time for somebody to die. My unfortunate Grandfather died of a heartattack when I was on holiday in Spain. Only for me to come home to that news was horrific. I will pray for your unfortunate Dad and hopefully you can get over this tragic death and mourn for your Dad in relaxed time.
Rhian XxXOoOXxX
hannah shaw says...
oh cathy i am soo sorry!! I it when family die especially close family. even so i hope u have the greatest of christmases xxx
kate (kat) says...
im sorry about ure dad but i feel the same way as a couple of days ago my grandad died and my mum has flown out to new zealand for the funeral therefor wont be here for christmas. i feel very sad as i didnt see him alot because he was so far away its a very empty feeling. i know its hard as im trying to be strong but i just grit my teeth and bare through. i hope life gets better and enjoy every single secong of christmas as no one lives forever yours loyally kat xxxxxxxx p.s i hope things go ok and keep writing as they keep me happy when im deeply sad they really get me through and hold me together.
Abby says...
I am really sorry, that your lovely father passed away. It must be soooo upsetting. Even still, make the most of your christmas. tHERE Will still be loads more good things, come up in your life. Abbyxx
Sarah B says...
I’m soo sorry cathy. I know what its like. My grandad died in September. 11th September infact. I was really upset when we heard the news because me and my brother were waiting in the car while my mum was shopping.Suddenly she ran up to the car and I could see she was crying.I knew what was up the second I saw the mobile phone in her hand and the tears in her eyes.My Grandpa had been unwell over the Summer.He had an operation and recovered but he’d been feeling sick over the past few weeks.It was a real shock. We drove to my Grandma’s house and there was an ambulance outside the house. We went inside and stayed in the sitting room while the ambulance people came in. My aunties and uncles and cousins visited. It was so scary seeing them all crying. I’d never seen them cry before. It made me realise that even adults cry. But at least my Grandpa died when he was asleep so he was in peace.I really,really,really hope you feel better Cathy. Your dad sounded like a true hero to me. Not the superhero,superman type but the hero that is always by your side and encourages you to never give up.Remember that your dad will never leave you. You should dedicate one of your books to him.I really,really really understand what your going through.I’m sure all your readers understand the situation your in too. I really hope you feel better Cathy. Have a great Christmas Cathy. I’m praying for you and your family.
Loads of love,
Sarah xxx
Iqra says...
Cathy, I’m so sorry. That trigerd memories for me too. My Uncle passed away a couple of weeks ago as well. I know there is a saying, everyone has to move on, but sometimes it’s just too hard to let go of the memories, too hard to let go of the love. Don’t worry Cathy. You have the rest of your family. And your fans will support you till’ the end, and i’m sure of that. Becasue if i can, everyone can! ..xxXxx..
JASMINE says...
Thinking of you and your family cathy.I hope that the love you share with your family and friends will help through this sad time and that you will be able to remember all the good times.Love Jaz.
Tom says...
I’m so sorry. I understand: Christmas eve would have been my Mum’s birthday. Face the sadness and feel it to the full.
Miku says...
I’m very sorry about your dad Cathy! I hope you have a good Christmas with your family!
Natalie says...
I know how you feel,my grandad died a couple of weeks ago so christmas will be sad.Hi died a month tomorrow,24th. Sorry about your dad. Natalie,big fan
Alana says...
sorry cathy! that must really make u feel bad! <:-( i feel ur pain! My favorite dog Tia just a mounth ago past away! she was so nice and it was her birthdat in like days!she was almost 8 in real years!she died from an enlarged heart! they said shed last till around christmas but i guess not! so the a week or 2 l8tr we got a new puppy! then he died from a ceaser! then our cat ran away! Now we hav one lost cat and we got another puppy her name is Lola shes really nice! shes fine now! well i hope u feel better and none of ur pets die! and its good to remember all the good times u had wwith ur dad none of the bad! :-)
! ~ elly ~ ! says...
OMG cathy!!!!!!!!! i feel sooooooooooooo sorri 4 u!!! luckily no 1 in my family has dided yet so i dont no how it feels. my grandparents and cousin, pierre bouvier (singer from the band simple plan) r here so i’m gonna go giv them a HUGE hug except for my 4 older brothers, theres no way im huggin them! 2 scary and gross!!!!!!!!!! i would neva hug them no matter how much any 1 paid me! anywayz i hope u feel better soon! ur dad sounded really nice and supportive. remember he will always be ther wiv u and he will neva 4get u! MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! luv from elly xox :)
hannah shaw says...
omg cathy im so sorry!! he sounds like he was a really special person what if in ur next book you put a dedictation to him or in his memory?
i really hope u have a great xmas
Eu says...
Im so sorry,honestly,my grandad died a year ago and he meant a lot for me (although he was vey ill and he couldnt actualy do anything)and my mum was very sad.He meant a world for her.But if you keep thinking in him,he will be alive in your heart.Thats what I said to her and she got better. PS:Thanks for doing by poem about him a runners up,it meant a lot to my family…and to me.
kayleigh says...
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry to here ur news. stay strong and remember the good times u had together
Luv ur books ur my fave author a big (i mean realy big)fan kayleighxxxx
Danielle says...
I am constantly reading your books over and over again – I hope you have a good Christmas and try to remember all the good times with your father, rather than the bad. You inspire so many people, so please try and be happy over the Christmas period. Danielle x
*Ayanna*.A* says...
sorry 2 hear about ur dad. but hav a merry X-Mas xoxxoxxoxooxxoxooxx
Olivia says...
I am so sorry Cathy about your dad. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas anyway. Love Olivia xxx
Lucie says...
it’s so unfair that people die on christmas!it really shouldnt be! but Cathy,no matter that your dad doesnt stand next to you,its important that you have him in your heart! he’s still with you but he just look after you from heaven! Love,Lucie
Angela says...
Cathy, stay strong.. =] We believe in you, You can go through this.
daisy says...
this is sooo sad for me to here, when someone so so so close to you’s time has run out you feel soo alone but stay strong cathy , my grandad died earlier on this year and my brothers dad sadly took his own life this summer , and i know that i have come out a stronger person and its a lesson for everyone who’s not close to family ! make the time for your loved ones before time runs out xxxxx
Lorna says...
Merry Christmas to everyone! for yesterday… Sorry to hear about your Dad! I hope you’re alright; stay strong! And eat plenty of Special Chocolates!!! xxxxx
channie says...
just mourn all you want it helps a lot when my gran died i just talked about it and now i can get on better.i have hugged everybody in my family for you and i love them so much. However as your dad gave the idea’s to write why not write a book in memory of him?? he’ll like that and don’t forget even though he’s not with us he’ll always love you. p.s:reply 2 me asap dont be 2 sad cuz thts not what he wants he wants you to be happy and live the rest of you life like hes still there and he no’s you will never forget him
Nasreen says...
Hey Cathy I did whatyou say and i love hugging my family so this year i hugged them thrise each
Ellyn says...
so sorry about your dad, i hope u had a good xmas, i got dizzy and driftwood for xmas. i have finished dizzy!
Sian says...
SOOOOOOOOOOO sorry about your dad but you will always have memories about him and they will never die! stay strong
moll says...
cathy i know how you feel my mum died when i was 9 and im now 11 i always think about her and your dad should be soo proud of you im sure he wants you to be happy and not sad and write a book about him about a girl who loses her dad and people will be inspired how you dedicated your book to ur daddy :) keep going cathy love moll
Georgia says...
Dear Cathy, I hope things aren’t too bad for you right now, all your readers thoughts are with you and your family. But please, don’t give up your writing, even though your dad’s gone. Everyone’s hearts will be broken, and i’m sure your dad would want you to keep on writing! Were all here for you, don’t give up Cathy! From Georgia
Libby says...
I totally believe that Christmas is a family time.You must feel awful,but like the characters in your books,be brave, and feel pleased that something ius left of your Dad,the books.
Laura says...
First I would just like to say, I’m sorry to hear about your Dad, but i wanna thank you for your book ‘Sundae Girl’ as it has really helped me with my mum :) Thanks Cathy! Laura x
bran says...
i’m so sorry cathy! i kno if someone can get thru it, its u. u r soo inspirational. now is a great time to think about all the happy memories u had with ur dad. he’s in a better place now. be strong! -bran ps u r my fave author ever! keep up the good work!
Heather says...
I’m sooooooooooo sorry that that would happen but I feel your pain i know this is stupid but it hurts my rabbit got killed by a minc in the night i cant help but cry every time i ever hear people talk about her!!!How sad is that???!!! But I feel for you Cathy I got your back and be strong it might not seem like it now but everyhting will work out eventually.We all love you Cathy just look for that Ploe Star it’s always there just like your dad always will be.In your HEART .
Caitlin says...
Dont give up Cathy, No one in my family has died so I dont no what it feels like to lose some one you love so much, one thing I do no is that you cant let one bad thing get in your way, take some time to just relax and think and im sure that within a couple of months although you wont for get how sad you feel but you will try to be as happy as possible, your books mean alot to me keep writing keep smiling Love Peace and Chocolate
Jenassa says...
Sorry bout ur dad.Ii know how u feel cause my grandfather died 5 days before christmas and my family and i feel very sad too.Anyways,Wish u all a happy christmas!
chirelle says...
i am so sorry about your dad but these things happen even if u wish for them not to. The best way to cure is to get in to a nice juicey book and it will make all your troubles go away hopefully. best wishes chirrelle
Alex says...
I don’t know what you feel like right now but I wish you all the best and I encourage you to keep going strong and believing in yourself. Keep writing your awesome books as I am sure that is what your Dad would of wanted you to do. Love and Best Wishes, Alex xx P. S Keep Smiling! Even though it is hard :-)
Vicky says...
Sorry about your dad, cathy. I hope you feel better soon. It must be really sad to lose someone. I know how it feels, my cat died some months ago. I’ll be OK I know, and I know you’ll be OK soon too. Anyway, lets live in peace and joy! Merry X’mas and a Happy new year, cathy and everyone!
millie says...
I am so sorry cathy it’s hard when you just don’t expect it.my heart pours out for you.maybe if you would like to try and remember all the good times and maybe the bad times you spent with him when your finished you will probaly be laughing your head off.nobody can tell you what to cathy you make your own decisions no one else.even when someone isn’t there you know they’ll always be in your heart no matter what any one says, your dad seems like a real super dad so it must be hard for something as good as that to be gone.however cathy you can pull through anything but take time getting over, it you will never stop feeling sad but you won’t feel as sad when you first heard the news cathy my deepest sorrows luv millie your greatest fanxxxxxxxxxxxx
Olivia May. says...
Sarah B,i know what your going through.My uncle died on september the 11th,in the twin towers.I cant spend christmas with him anymore,as he’s died.Im sooo sorry if anyone’s family,friends or pets have died.Stay strong,Cathy,love Olivia May. xoxoxox.
Hannah says...
Hey Cathy! I had a great christmas. Thank you so much I think I will have a great new year knowing that new books will be on their way thanks again, Hannahx
millie says...
cathy i feel so sad i did exactly what you told me to do and now i feel so much better and i even hugged my annyoing uncle. cathy when some one’s there and you hate them you say i wouldn’t care if you died but then when their gone you regret it that’s why i hugged him i knew that if he was gone i would regret thank you cathy for making me see sense luv millie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hannah says...
PS I hope your back to your normal self soon after your terrible news so sorry. Hannahx
carmen says...
sorry about your terrible loss cathy.my grandma died a couple of days before thanksgiving one year so i kinda know how u feel.
carmen says...
sooooo sorry about ure loss,cassie.im going to go hug my mom now!!!xoxoxoxoxo
flame says...
OMG cathy i am so sorry my grandad died a week befor xmas so i know how u feel i love your books espesialy scarlett and dizzy
Emma says...
Im so sorry to hear about your dad. I haven’t experianced someone in family who is dead but my nanny and grandads dog died and i loved him so much so that was really sad too. Someone said that you should dedicate a book 2 him and i agree. Hope u had a gr8 xmas luv emma!
shauna says...
cathy, i know how you feel last christmas my godmother and my gran aunt died 1 before christmas, one a very little while after. i feel your pain so i just want to take this oppertunaty to tell you how inspiring you are. everyone in the world that has read your books will back me up on this one. your the best writer ever. you can write about people like its comming out of your mind. thanks cathy for let us enjoy reading love, peace and chocolate[i love that book] shauna xoxo
millie says...
cathy i am so sorry about your dad
Zoe says...
I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad. Stay positive and keep smiling :) I love your books and am reading Lucky Star right now. There’s allways hope wherever you are.
fire says...
I feel soooo sorry for you! My friends Dad left her in a different very painful way and I feel her pain so badly i cry about it sometimes. I feel yours too!!!! Hope you feel better soon!!! I would say Merry Christmas but it’s a bit late now so Happy New Year! xx
joanna says...
Really sorry about your dad but still hope you had a good xmas.. i got lucky star for xmas and I have read it already and i have also read Dizzy, Indigo Blue, Driftwood, and Sundae Girl your books are so good!! So keep writing From Joanna xx
jess says...
im really sorry cathy. im going through the same situation as you my nan died and i miss her so much :(
amy r.g.m says...
i’m sooo soooooooooooo sorry to hear about your dad! stay strong cathy! i hope you have a great 2008! ames xxxxxoo
Lisa says...
I think you’ve already got the message: all your fans really care for you! Here are my regards. Everyone has to go at some point, at least he was happy, how couldn’t he be, he had a successful heroine named Cathy Cassidy as a daughter! But the truth is always so much easier to handle in the long run. My best friend lives in Malta, and for the past year I have cried daily because she isn’t here. But, recently, I’ve realised how idiotic I’ve been. My friend and your dad, neither of them would have wanted us to be miserable and moping about them, they’d want us to get on with our lives. My friend would hate to know she had made me upset. Even though they’re gone, their memories live on, and they won’t fade. Just remember, as someone once said, A woman is like a teabag, you don’t know how strong she is until she gets into hot water. Be that woman, be strong, and keep smiling! Lisa xxx
Caroline says...
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry! My cat just died yesterday. We had him for 3 and a half years. I am so sorry
Summer says...
Dearest Cathy, I’m really sorry about what happened! Stay strong! And I hope you have a greater christmas this year! Love always, Summer XOXO
Rosie says...
I am soo sorry to hear tha your dad died. My Nanna died last year while i was at school, my Mom told me when she picked me up. I cried for ages and ages. But she was 89 and she had cancer and did’nt want the treatment because all of her friends had died. I loved her very much and was sad to see her go. You have just got to keep strong and keep smiling!
Lots and lost of love from Rosie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Michaela says...
O my gosh i’m so sorry about your dad!i hope you feel a bit better soon and have a better year.XXXoooXXXoooXXXoooXXXooo Michaela
Sarah B says...
I’m really sorry Cathy! Stay strong, you can do it! Lots of Love,
Sarah xxx
ps. Lisa’s comment was very inspiring, sounds like all your fans really care.
rachel says...
it’s horrible to hear about the sad death of your father it seems to me that all your fans are thinking of you and we all feel for you so much my aunties dog had to put down on christmas day as it got cancer and i know how much that effected our christmas and that was a dog so its so horrible to hear news like that just stay strong and you will always have your dad in your heart your love for each with never stop and he will be watching you all the time.
they are things i think of when my nan died on my birthday a few years back.
keep smiling love rach x
Sammy...x says...
My Nan died a month or so before so I know exactly how you feel…me and my family stuck together and gave my Grandpa all the support in the world..and we all realised one thing….Family is really the thing that makes Christmas after all Sammy xxx
Rebekah says...
Hi Cathy im sorry for your death in your family!!And so close to christmas doesnt help at all!!!My granny died the year before i was born so i didnt get to meet her!!I know dads are very caring!!But things like that happen in Life and you have to move on!!My granda also died when i was four years old!! Love Rebekah xxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxx
ams96 says...
I am so sorry to hear about your dad he sounded like a great man. But whenever you feel like crying, cry and fell safe knowing that he would be proud of you and would want you to be happy. xoxo
Olivia says...
Cathy I Think All Of Your Books Are Fantastic But I Can’t Get My Hands On Scarlett! Love Always, Olivia Ox.
lucy xx says...
cathy i am so sorry about your dad but try to think about all the quality times you had together rather than this sad time at the moment lots of Love Lucy xxx
xxx alice xxx says...
OMG Im feel really sorry for you! Just keep your chin up and smile it alwayss helps! Keep smiling! Alice
Nia says...
I’m really sorry. I hope that you managed to have a lovely Christmas even so, and I just want to say that it is hard but think about all the special times you had. xx.
XxChloexX says...
Im really sorry about what happend to your dad … Some of my friends have lost someone in there lives and they say that it is best to talk to people about it… And keep writing those incredible books … luv from chloexx
josie says...
oh cassy thats terrible. Your so brave to carry on writing your books, please do there the best.I hope you feel better soon and i think that because you and your dad must have been so close which is some times unfortunately rare
Olivia says...
Hey Olivia, try custom ordering it! That’s how got my hands on Indigo!! P.S I am in America! P.P.S, Cathy that’s terrible how you lost your dad!
Angela says...
Hey! It;s so terrible for you, I am sure you must be getting the blues. Anyway stay strong! This is life. It is short and one day everyone says goodbye, but now juz stay happy and smile everyday. That’s life. Anyway love your books. They are influential and give me a different perspective of other teens just like me. Your books sure set me to daydream a lot and give me inspiration in writing my own stories too! (p/s I love writing and cooking up new stories)
Ellie says...
Hey Cathy! Thats Terrible, My Gran Died Last Year Near Christmas So I Know How You Feel :( Byyyeee x
julia says...
i’m so sorry cathy! i bet where ever he is his proud to have you
Sophia says...
That’s terrible news, cathy. My heart goes out to you.
Sophia. xxx
jessica lorenz says...
so sorry cathy stay strong and dont let it get you down although he was close to you he is now in peace he is always alive in you
Jess Rocks good! ha! says...
I’m sooo sorry cat you must be really sad and upset. I know he loves you Love from Jessica
Ashley Hanney x says...
Im A Bit Late Sorry!! My Great Aunt Margaret Took A Stroke 2 Years Ago But She’s Okay Now She’s In A Home But We Visit Every Second Day! I’m So Sorry For Your Loss Cathy.. You Defo Made Your Dad Proud!!
Caitlin says...
I’m so sorry to hear about that Cathy but he will always be with you whether he’s alive or not and I’m sure you had a very special place in his heart!
Katie says...
I’m so sorry, Cathy! I feel so sorry for you. Don’t worry, though. He’ll always be in your heart. Even though he’s dead he’ll always be with you. He thinks the world of you and that’s all that matters! :)
Maddy says...
i am so sorry cathy!! that is very sad!! my heart goes out to you!! ♥ Maddy
Cinnmon says...
Oh my god! you must be feeling so sad and unchristmassy right now. ideas to make you happy again: write or dedicate a book about him or to him. hopefully with support and care from your fans, friends and family, things will ripen for you. people will say they understand but they don’t. but I do. i’m an orphan. honest. love cinnamon xx
Abbey says...
Oh Gosh Cathy! That must be terrible. I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you are coping x
Laura says...
Cathy, I am so sorry for your loss. I know what it feels like to lose somebody, and it isn’t a nice feeling. However, just remember that he is watching over you from up in Heaven, and that he will always be in your heart. Surrounding yourself with friends and family (and fans!) is sure to help you cope and feel better. Have a Merry Christmas, none the less! xo